Post by mndapa1 on Aug 12, 2009 17:31:18 GMT -6
Estate Planning.
It is never to early to plan.
Take it from someone that had discussed a lot with his dad and though everything was taken care of and wasn't.
Please take the time and effort to do it and be thorough. There is nothing like leaving a big mess that tears the family apart.
Make sure that all loose ends are tied up and try not to create a rift between your heirs.
I can tell you this much from my experience....I wish my dad would have liquidate everything and given it to charity rather than have my parents piss off my other siblings and let them take it out on my immediate family.
The wounds and scars that have been left while I have tried to grieve and my wife and kids and grandkids by poor planning has left us with burnt bridges that we may never rebuild. I cant thank you all enough for being one of my havens where I can get away from the mess time to time.
You may also notice that we are one member shorter than before, as I have had to remove my twin brother for fear that he would bring his anger and his fight with my parents here....and I would not tolerate it. You have all become my friends and like family, and I hope that I can share some of the hurdles we do not need to put our families through in the future.
Thanks and have a good day and night and God Bless.
It is never to early to plan.
Take it from someone that had discussed a lot with his dad and though everything was taken care of and wasn't.
Please take the time and effort to do it and be thorough. There is nothing like leaving a big mess that tears the family apart.
Make sure that all loose ends are tied up and try not to create a rift between your heirs.
I can tell you this much from my experience....I wish my dad would have liquidate everything and given it to charity rather than have my parents piss off my other siblings and let them take it out on my immediate family.
The wounds and scars that have been left while I have tried to grieve and my wife and kids and grandkids by poor planning has left us with burnt bridges that we may never rebuild. I cant thank you all enough for being one of my havens where I can get away from the mess time to time.
You may also notice that we are one member shorter than before, as I have had to remove my twin brother for fear that he would bring his anger and his fight with my parents here....and I would not tolerate it. You have all become my friends and like family, and I hope that I can share some of the hurdles we do not need to put our families through in the future.
Thanks and have a good day and night and God Bless.